That’s all-important first date: Where do you go? What do you talk about? Should you let him kiss you on a first date? How do you keep a date from turning into an interview? The key is creating a “shared experience” that establishes a lasting, romantic connection from the get-go. Here’s how to make first date special.
A first date is all about an impression. No matter how well you get along with someone online, everybody knows that nothing really happens until you get in front of each other. That’s when you’ll find out, if there is enough chemistry to lead of romance. And that can put lot of pressure on both people.A woman wants to feel the man she’s with has not only thought about date, but also be prepared accordingly. Let me help you to decipher her unspoken expectations for date what she wants you to do but would never actually say. Here is how to make that happen.
1# Go The Extra Mile.. or Two
If you greet her with a red rose and smile, surely you will get a warm response. But why not turn up the heat and offer her a less stereotypical treat? If you already know something about the girl, use the information to your advantage. If her favorite color is purple, give her a purple flower. Otherwise, use your imagination.
The key is creativity- she’ll be impressed if you’ve shown that you not only got her something, but that you thought about her while doing it.
#2 Choosing The Place
Now that you’re in that mindset that the first meeting is an experience, not an interview. Where do you go? If you still in Open Communication, use it to expertise what a fun date is for you, and ask him what it means to him.
Are you trying to meet someone for the day only, or are you trying to find a love? Choose the best destinations to make them feel special.
#3 Be Polite, Not Pushy!
Whether you are a boy or a girl, try to show off your best side to your date. He/She may not tell you that convention is a priority, but be sure that he/she is keeping an eye on what you are doing, and perhaps more importantly, what you are not doing. It is the little details than can make a big difference.
Don’t embarrass your date by dressing badly or reach out to your date on a late. Behave good enough to become a good date.
#4 Be Complimentary
Don’t forget to give compliment to your date, especially if you are meeting a female date. Compliment could be anything about her looks, her hair or the way she smells that like you. You can rest assured that she’s spend a good amount of her time hairs and preparing for this first date and it’s important for you to acknowledge her efforts.
#5 Be Assertive, not Aggressive
It’s important that you are confident on your first. But you also know the importance not to blur the line between being assertive and aggressive while interactive with her, as well as those who might even prove to be confederate on your first date.
#6 Leave her impressed
There are many things that you need to keep in mind to ensure that you know what to do on a date and end it the perfect way. You want her to leave her impressed with your behavior and about a wonderful time, she has and how lucky she was to spend her precious time with you.
Seeing her to stand in front of your door will no doubt get you further. But give her options to welcome you in by taking it single step at a time. Offering her polite end to a wonderful evening just leaves her wanting more.
If you have played your card right, she will be impressed with you and wanting more than this one date anyway.